Gaining Insight Into Yourself as a Helper

Gaining Insight Into Yourself as a Helper

Gaining Insight Into Yourself as a Helper

by Julia Reich -
Number of replies: 2

1. What were your motives for helping this person?

One of the students I support is pursuing a nontraditional path (applying for and attending a tech boot camp), which none of our program alumni have pursued, to our knowledge. I knew we didn't have as many structures in place or connections for students like her, so I felt compelled to provide her extra support and meet more frequently so that she felt like there was someone else beside her on this path. 


2. Did you benefit from this relationship in any way? How?

I benefited by expanding my knowledge around the path she is taking. I learned from conversations I had with tech boot camp alumni and corporate recruiters about the boot camp experience and potential outcomes. The student also had many conversations with relevant people, and she shared the information she learned with me about the various programs around the Twin Cities. Given the familiarity I've gained with this path and her willingness to share her knowledge and experience with other students and me, I will be better prepared to support students in the future who may be interested in boot camps.


3. What was your role in the helping relationship? In what way do you think you helped this person? Looking back, is there anything that you might have done differently?

One of my big roles was being a cheerleader who also asked questions to encourage the student to ensure she was thinking through the whole scenario (ex: if you get into a program with tuition, what is your plan for how will you pay the tuition? what have you learned about job prospects for boot camp graduates with no college degree vs. AA vs. bachelors?). I shared with the student two opportunities for free boot camps that our corporate partners shared with us. In this way, I helped her by connecting her with opportunities she may not have otherwise found (one of them was only sent out to partners, not posted publicly). Looking back, I would have followed up with her more thoroughly about her job search before she was planning to apply to the fully funded programs. She had an opportunity to apply for an internship through our program, which would have covered the cost of her program, but she missed the deadline and never applied. I do believe she would have eventually found another position, if need be, but I wish I had been more inquisitive about why she did not pursue an opportunity she most likely would have gotten. I also would have reached out sooner to my contact about the opportunity that wasn't posted publicly online so that the student would have had more time to apply.


4. Was there anything that this person did, said, or believed that you did not agree with? How did you react?

Not particularly! I think from the start, she was confident that she'll get hired without a college degree, if she has completed a boot camp. I've spoken with recruiters who only hire applicants with bachelor degrees, so I was less optimistic, but just encouraged her to keep asking everyone she met with what their perspective on it was - and there are many perspectives! I think it totally depends on the company, and more and more hiring practices are tending away from caring solely about college education status. The program she will be participating in provides a job guarantee upon program completion, so hopefully she proves my uncertainty wrong!


5. Did you learn anything from this relationship?

I learned to trust students more than I instinctively do, especially when they are motivated enough to pursue a path that requires some extra work. I have been so amazed by how many conversations she has pursued, how communicative she's been with me about her process, and how excited she is about forging this new path for our organization. So excited to see where this opportunity takes her!
In reply to Julia Reich

Re: Gaining Insight Into Yourself as a Helper

by Charise Wilson -

Hi Julia,

Thank you for sharing this information. I have to agree that a non-tradition route could be scary at times, but mostly for us as career practitioners more than the students themselves. 

Could it be that this stems from our internal beliefs and the personal paths we took or what we define as a successful route? Which in our cases included higher education? Whether that is the case or not it may play a part. I only say this because more and more individuals in career services are seeing this trend and maybe even seeing these as opportunities and new career path options just like you are seeing.

This really excites me. My spouse works for a Union. He is a Foreman in construction. Does not have a degree but has several credentials and makes a great living. He never had to pay back student loans and loves what he does and works on million dollar cool projects. There is a lot of money to be made in varied avenues.

I'm happy that your program shares unique opportunities and I hope this boot camp proves to be helpful for your student! I can tell you are hoping for the same and it was an eye-opening experience for you all around. Great job on supporting her and learning more as you went along!

Excellent post!

Charise

In reply to Julia Reich

Re: Gaining Insight Into Yourself as a Helper

by Austin Raines -

Julia, 

I agree with you and Charise that a non-traditional route can often be scary and intimidating. Sometimes, I still get nervous when a student chooses a major or career that is not in demand. I have learned to provide them with as much information as I can regarding the job market and the specific major/career, as well as explore why they chose that. Passion tends to provide motivation, so I make it a priority to find what it is that they are passionate about. It helps to ask about geographic location too, such as: are you willing to relocate? Showing them the job market for that specific major/career in their desired location can be a reality check (e.g., O*NET). Ultimately, I have to remind myself that it is their decision at the end of the day; like you said, "...trust students more than I instinctively do, especially when they are motivated enough to pursue a path that requires some extra work".