1. She needed to talk through options for work after her divorce, and she is my friend.
2. I benefited because I got to watch her take on new challenges with renewed courage and self-confidence.
3. Just to listen, encourage, and point out strengths. She had lost sight of what she could do well on her own. No.
4. She decided to take a career that has no steady income stream, and she was so afraid of not doing well. I pointed out how the concern she had voiced, and asked about how serious her uncertain income might be. Personally, deep down I questioned her decision, but supported her decision.
5. She's doing well in her job, but staying stressed. I did learn that everyone has to try things out themselves, but that it's ok to raise questions to make them think. Just not to take a stand or take it personally when they choose something different.