Hi Meryem,
Well stated, especially, this point, "The only thing I would have done differently if I had the opportunity would be giving more control to my friend over the situation instead of identifying the problem myself and implementing the solution without involving her in every decision I had to make throughout the helping process." It can be difficult not to "take over" sometimes because of the sense of duty we sometimes feel. I think that yes maybe you could have asked her if she needed the help, but some times people would rather ask themselves too, so it can be a catch either way. Sometimes just being there and leaving the door open is just fine, which is what I think you did here.
Well done,
Charise
Well stated, especially, this point, "The only thing I would have done differently if I had the opportunity would be giving more control to my friend over the situation instead of identifying the problem myself and implementing the solution without involving her in every decision I had to make throughout the helping process." It can be difficult not to "take over" sometimes because of the sense of duty we sometimes feel. I think that yes maybe you could have asked her if she needed the help, but some times people would rather ask themselves too, so it can be a catch either way. Sometimes just being there and leaving the door open is just fine, which is what I think you did here.
Well done,
Charise